Message To All My Sisters

Posted: September 13, 2012 in Life, Love, sex, Society
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Sex education is badly needed after high school, in my opinion. Pregnancy and STD prevention can’t be the only topics either. Why are girls not getting their orgasms?

Why do they feel obliged to perform oral sex on the guys first? Men orgasm quickly. The woman should orgasm several times before her partner, always! Girls need to learn to tell their partners what they like and don’t like.

If I had a dime for every time a girlfriend told me how she caved to the guy’s demands, I would be a very rich woman. A selfish lover is the worse lover of all. I don’t care if he’s hung like a horse and looks like Michael Phelps.

And by the way ladies, don’t overlook masturbation. You know your body better than anyone. Don’t be afraid to look at yourself naked and  familiarize yourself with your vagina.

Too many girls hate the sight of their own vagina. Nasty, gross and ugly should never be a way of describing your vagina. There are guys who refuse to look at the vagina as well. Why? I have no idea.

Also, if your partner isn’t willing to take care of your needs, there are plenty who are. Remember, you are the reason classical art exists. The female form has been worshipped since the caveman.

Tell yourselves these things every single day:

1. I deserve tenderness, respect and joy.

2. I will always love myself.

3. No one will make me feel ashamed or embarrassed about my body.

4. I will not settle for less than what I want and deserve.

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Comments
  1. On the flip side, you should explain why women should always orgasm first.

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  2. Chicapoet says:

    It’s true, only education I got was when I was in fifth grade, and it was more of a cartoon than a real life documentary. I also got it from the books that I read when I was 14– I was reading material that was clearly not for me, but I am thankful that they fell in my hands because my parents didn’t really tell us anything about sex other than, “you’re supposed to be a virgin when you get married.” That didn’t help all. That just brought feelings of guilt for feeling embarrassed about my body’s needs and intimacy.

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  3. coconutspeak says:

    Women have an obligation to themselves, first and foremost. We have the right to say no as well as yes. Respect for your body is paramount. If the guy wants the two of you to act like porn stars and you don’t want it, say so. Back in my day, guys use the following lines:
    If you love me, you’ll do it.
    I promise it won’t hurt. (and it hurts like crazy)
    Just the tip, baby and I’ll pull out. (bullshit 101)

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  4. katlynn83 says:

    one of my friends use to tell me this: its not how big they are but how they use it. and thats the truth

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  5. kzackuslheureux says:

    Preach it sister!

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  6. Ok, after just reading a few posts, I am definitely in love with you… best advice in this post: “don’t overlook masturbation” I laughed, because it is so true… I was raised in an uber-religious household and was taught that pleasing yourself was dirty and that you only miscreants and whores did that kind of thing…now be a good girl and wait till you’re married and all that fluff. So I did…and let me tell you, if it wasn’t for a vibrator, my finger, and occasionally the shower head, I would have started a killing spree long ago…starting with my inconsiderate husband… I think that the whole concept of mutual pleasure is so alien to people that it’s almost comical. I mean, I’m all in for a bj anytime he wants one, but give reciprocation or give me death…because yes, I will stab you with a fork if you try to weasel out of it… I am so happy you commented on my post, or I never would have found you, and you ma’am, have definitely given me pleasure today!

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    • coconutspeak says:

      Amen, sister! Yeah, I’ve been married for 12 years. My in laws just celebrated their 50th Anniversary and are still very much in love. They’re very affectionate and can’t keep their hands to themselves. That’s the goal as far as I’m concerned.

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